Sunday, December 26, 2010

True joys of life...

One of life's great discoveries is that joy comes from the enjoyment and appreciation of simple things—the sun on you face, the sound of you lover's voice, rereading your favorite book. But the true essence of joy is found in giving...

Compliment three people every day
Don't overlook life's small blessings ,enjoy while searching for the big ones 

Travel. See new places, but remember to take along an open mind.  

       Street musician are are treasure. Stop for a moment and listen, then leave a small donation.

Count your blessing.

Never be ashamed of laughter that's too loud or singing that is too joyful.

. If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others while you are living. That is the wealths greatest satistaction.

Never miss an opportunity to ride a roller coaster

 Give someone a precious gift of forgiveness.

Make a new friends but cherish the old ones. 

Learn to play musical instrument.

Take a nap on Sunday afternoon.

Learn to make something beautiful with your hands.

Life will sometimes hand you a magical moments. Savor it.  

Read more books 

Watch less TV  

Smile A lot. It costs nothing and is beyond price.

  Seek out the good in people. 

Never laugh at anyone's dreams
Love someone who doesn't deserve it. 

Refrain from envy. It's the source of much unhappiness.*******

Don't postpone joy.

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Saturday, December 25, 2010

holiday sparkle!

Hi! Just wanna share with you this fabulous make-up
sparkle by the body shop...enjoy! it!


I 'm a barbie girl in a barbie world..haha. Once in our life, we have dreamed to become a barbie. I had a barbie doll when I was a child and I loved her soooo much that I had to change her clothes and wash her hair. Haha! Imagine what happened, huh!
So this is my barbie look, inspired by Michelle Phan! I love it although I am not that good in make-up yet. But I am getting a hang on it! Maybe next time, I'll better:) and it will be inspired by me.
Here's another look, with lady gaga's hair.

loving me

  • Love your self before you love others...yes this is true. How can you love others when your yourself doesn't even like you. I used to be like that. I often felt a spang of jealousy towards skinny bitch out there. I felt like i was not pretty enough, smart enough and kind enough. Everything was not enough! Therefore i ended up alone, scared and with a very low self steem.
  • I used to have a lot of friends. I mean, there is nothing wrong with having a lot of friends as long as you know your boundries. Me, at that time, i have no boundries:( I gave my all specially to my best friend. I allowed her to live with me for free, be with her when her boyfriend dumb her and helping her find her new boyfriend.. and i ended up alone, betrayed and hurt by her. I love her with all my heart, and I thought that maybe, i was not worthy enough of her love.
so, how did I stand up from all of this????
  • I begin to love my self! Just like what my cousin said, "so what can I do if she's prettier than me? I just have to accept that fact and move on, becoz if I get insecure, I'll become unhappy." Woah! Those words woke me up! So what if i dont have a body of a goddess? This doesn't mean that I cannot dress well! I can dress whatever I want and to hell with what other people might say! so what if im not skinny enough! This doesn't mean i'll just hide my face under the table. I'll flaunt it becoz i can do make-up and be fat and fabulous! so what if other people think i was not pretty enough? I rather be ordinary looking but smart than be pretty 'dumb' right?
  • Regarding with my "ex-bestfriend, i let her go...and then I found out that she was one of the people who is full of insecurty and envousness! I mean, if i remember it right, she often gets angry when other people say good things about me!She doesn't encourage me if I wanted to do something but instead, she tried to discourage me! I don't need a friend like that! I don't need a lot of friend! I just need one true friend who will accept me for what I am:)
One thing I learned from this is to value your self worth. Accept and love what you are and you will definitely feel great and confident. Improve what you can improve and accept what you cannot. You can have friends but know your boundries and learn to choose. Most of all, love and appreciate your family, becoz if all else fails, and everybody let you down, your family will always be there for you:)