Monday, May 30, 2011

Yes..we are born this way:)

Hello fabs! Just wanted to post something to inspire everyone specially my fabulous fat and fab readers:)

I was inspired by the song Born this way. Yes, we are born  this way ...

I'm beautiful in my way
'Cause God makes no mistakes
I'm on the right track baby
I was born this way
Don't hide yourself in regret
Just love yourself and you're set
I'm on the right track baby
I was born this way

 Don't be a drag, just be a queen
Whether you're broke or evergreen
You're black, white, beige, chola descent
You're lebanese, you're orient
Whether life's disabilities
Left you outcast, bullied, or teased
Rejoice and love yourself today
'Cause baby you were born this way
No matter gay, straight, or bi,
Lesbian, transgendered life
I'm on the right track baby
I was born to survive
No matter black, white or beige
Chola or orient made
I'm on the right track baby
I was born to be brave

I have recently receiving few negative comments about my blog, especially about the fact that I am inspiring all the big girls out there to be beautiful just the way they are. Well, to tell you the truth before I started doing this blog, I often get easily upset with negative comments. They could make me feel shameful that I wanted to cuddle in the corner and hug myself. I have also encountered negative comment about my body when I was younger, even now. I have experienced being called fat, pig etc. BUT at least, they didn't call me UGLY! Hahaha! I used to feel ashamed when I was with skinny co-workers feeling like the guys only noticed them so I just stayed in a corner saying nothing which was totally WRONG mind you. The truth is, guys wanted to talk to us its just that we are  trying to avoid any conversation with them because we are lacking of self confidence! Remember, Let you personality shine!All you  need is your brains and your personality . Let them see that you are smart, witty and fabulous! Be confident with your own skin! Think you are beautiful and your will be. Of course, negativity will always be there but  DON'T  waste your time on shallow people and don't let their negativity affect you. I know,sometimes it will hurt but  all you have to do is to ignore them. Never let anyone steal your joy.Life is too precious to waste time on negative people.

Being healthy(plus size) is not a negative thing.We just have to accept the fact that we can never be skinny  and we are  happy just the way we are. But, we can also have a healthy lifestyle. I am the first one to admit that I am lazy in terms of exercising :( but I'm trying. I am planning to invest in an exercise machine like a treadmill or something because I don't have the time to go to the gym. I will exercise not because of beauty but because of wellness.

As i have mentioned, I have received negative comments regarding this blog. Those comments now inspires me to be more positive and to prove them all wrong!That despite being a plus size, we can still be beautiful, fabulous, and be everything that we wanted to be!  I'm not saying that we should neglect our health. I'm just saying that fat can also have much fun just like everyone else. Everybody can have fun whatever your size and color is! As long as you love your self and believe in your self!

Yes my dear readers, we can be whatever we wanted to be.

Its in your hands

Want some proofs?

Here it is....

Ok, I  wanted to be a shy, girl next door....

Or a hot bombshell...

I can be a  fabulous geek...

or the ultimate rocker chic!!!

  LOL, as you can see its my favorite look.

See? We can be whatever we want..

Just wanna share again a nice song from Cristina Aguillera

Have a fabulous day...


LeonaCarolina said...

Aw, you are such a sweetheart! You are 100% right, every girl needs to embrace who she is, whether that is skinny, plus-size, short, tall, etc etc. I hate the fact that society and the media push on us that we should conform to this little box of "ideals". I am disappointed that someone would comment negatively on your blog. If they don't like what you post, then they should just move right along. You show them that they can't keep you down! :)

Just a bit of a tangent - I can empathize with you a bit with what you say about negative comments in real life. I was bullied at school about a few things (the way I looked was one of them). I've been out of high school four and a half years now and finally my way of saying 'stuff you!' has been to start blogging... sounds silly but it's been a great way of boosting my self-confidence.

fat and fabulouss said...

Thanks Leona, you comment really touched my heart.Just saw your blog and you look amazing! Luv your clothes dahling!

LeonaCarolina said...

No problem hun - sorry it's such a wall of text! I also forgot to mention that you look stunning in your photos above - the bombshell one is my favourite, you really suit red lips!

LBSfashion said...

you're inspirational :')

strawberry Princess said...

wow glad I found your blog... I am also fat and envy those people who can really blog about beauty products and fashion... They can actually do so without much effort because they have the body as they say.

i love your make-up tutorial but I wish you can also teach fashion for us plus size woman.

fat and fabulouss said...

Thanks miss LBSfashion! @strawberry Princess, I'm already planning to do that,but I'm thinking of a good concept first..only the best for my readers:)God Bless...

wickeRmoss said...

pretty! followed :))